Does anyone know a good counseler, or is one? because I seriously need one...

First off, My Parents don't care about anything I do. I'm the odd one out in the family; My older brother is the sporty, apathetic, superstar who's going to grow up to be a Shane Warne (except without the family troubles) and Michael Gilchrist in one, My younger brother is the stuffed bear loving, sowing, easily angerable psycho who will either end up in jail, or in a minamum wage job, and then there's me; the emotional, book reading, game playing, art loving, yet emotionally unstable, depressed and almost suicidal "gay" (according to my brothers, all because I read books).
My dad is the sports coach from hell, noone can take his training ragime, except my older brother. You can't sit in the same room as them without cricket or some other sport to be talked about nonstop, and that's when there's nothing on T.V., when the sports on, every tv is tuned to it, and there is no way of changing it without them yelling at you...
My mum is the doll and bear collecting, sowing, "only cares for academic achievement, nothing else", apathetic one whom gets along with my little brother best.....
And where does that leave me? the outsider, the outcast, the "nobody"....
Of course, I can fit in... at times...

Whats more, my parents don't even TRY to relate to me, we may be rich, and I may have every game console, game and accessory that has ever been, but it isn't enough! Nobody loves their parents for the stuff that they buy them if their parents don't try to care what their reaction is...
E.G. When i told my parents I'm not Christian and I'm really a Wiccan, it wasn't the 3 hour lecture from hell you'd get from your parents, it was a 2 minute apathyfest!
E.G.2. Around Week 2 of school I told my parents that my eyes are pretty screwy, and they forgot the next day, then i told them again and again and again... It's been almost 3 months since I told them the first time now!

I'll say of a few more reasons I'm depressed in later journals, but for now, if anyone can counsil me, then please do so, it would be much appreciated...